Why I Quit Dating Pattaya Go-Go Girls!
Some time ago, a hot Friday night, I was sitting in a popular Pattaya gogo bar in Walking Street. I think it was Baccara or maybe Shark, but that's not important. I got there at 10 pm with a friend. Now, none of us are regulars in Pattaya's gogo bars, but we do go once in a while to have a few drinks, share some laughs and of course chat with the very attractive girls in Baccara. Anyway, the place was packed, absolutely packed, not a seat open. There were certainly some very good looking girls that night, but they were all busy chatting up the latest fresh-of-the-boat tourist that they could talk into buying them drinks all night. There was probably 3 punters to each 1 girls, which made it seem a lot like being back hom. It struck me: There's got to be a better way to meet Pattaya girls and there is!
I think we can all agree that barhopping in Pattaya is great fun and it would take forever to see it all, but there comes a time when the bar scene gets a little stale. For some Pattaya residents this happens faster than others, but most eventually scale back on the partying.
That's not really the reason for looking for Pattaya girls outside the bar though. The thing is, if you are looking for a real relationship in Pattaya then you won't find it in the bars. Yes, some couples have emerged from the union of bar girl - bar patron, but most relationships fail because of lack of trust over the way you met. When you're in the bar, you are per definition a customer and that means it's the bar girl/hostess job to sell drinks. That's the job description. That is no good in my opinion. Relationships should not be entered into from a monetary relation.
The good thing is that there are attractive, single women everywhere in Pattaya. There are girls working in the hotels, in the malls, the offices, the restaurants, everywhere! Many of the would like to meet a Western man or at least they are intrigued about the adventure and freedom that comes with dating a foreigner, but they would never dream of setting foot in a bar or disco. Most Western guys don't notice these girls, cause they act more like traditional Thai girls. They may giggle or send a shy smile to a man they would like to get to know, but that's it, and most tourists simply do not pick up on these subbtle invitations.
About the Author:
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